Find the Good
Now that you've removed all of the negative reminders of your past relationship, it's time to fill those voids with positive influences. Surround yourself with the good things in your life. Reconnect with family and friends for support. Remind yourself that there are positive forces in your life and beyond, and utilize them. Read more about all four phases in our Believe section. Find out more
- 30 Jan 2010
- Posted by JJ42
Once I realized that the thing with my ex just wasn't in the cards, I am a pretty positive person and was able to just focus on the happy parts of my life - friends, family, social life, getting outside and just enjoying myself. One thing I did do - I looked back on my relationship and made that "list" people talk about - what I really liked about it and what I would avoid given the opportunity in the future. It really helped me embrace the positive aspects of my idea of a solid relationship so I'll know what to look for.