Find the Good
Now that you've removed all of the negative reminders of your past relationship, it's time to fill those voids with positive influences. Surround yourself with the good things in your life. Reconnect with family and friends for support. Remind yourself that there are positive forces in your life and beyond, and utilize them. Read more about all four phases in our Believe section. Find out more
- 27 Mar 2010
- Posted by jalelo1955
still angry at times, but moving on with life. i decided the best revenge was a good life and that is what i intend to do. just recently bought a new home and will be moving soon, am also going to buy a new bed and some new furniture, try for a truly fresh start. still sad at times, because i had looked forward to a life together, but each day i realize that this may have been the best also for me. i am not constantly walking on eggshells, trying to make everything perfect. i don't have to ask before i buy something or worry if he will like it. plus we did not have the type of "good marriage" that i had always wanted. someone i could talk with and do things with, that i could plan the later years with. would love to travel, especially to tropical islands, but not at the point i am comfortable doing that by myself. i do get lonely at times, but have no real interest in dating. a nice male friend to do things with would be really nice. maybe i will find that someday, i am not in a hurry. i need to go slowly and understand myself better first. i have become much more spiritiual during this divorce, and have enjoyed thinking and reading more about God and his plans fo us. i want to make my life mean something, honor him in whatever way he can use me. i know that this life has so much more promise for me now.