Find the Good

Embrace the Positive

Now that you've removed all of the negative reminders of your past relationship, it's time to fill those voids with positive influences. Surround yourself with the good things in your life. Reconnect with family and friends for support. Remind yourself that there are positive forces in your life and beyond, and utilize them. Read more about all four phases in our Believe section. Find out more

  • A New Day

    Well just recently i figured out that I don't need my ex boyfriend to make me happy, if anything i learned a lot of things from this experience, first thing; if your boyfriend really loves you, he will not keep a friendship with someone who he had a past with. Second thing; if your boyfriend is spending that night at that persons house, chances are, something is going on. Third thing; never let your guard down and never settle for second best. There are many things i learned, but those were the more important ones. Im confident i will find me a man who will love me and be there for me through good and the bad, and also i need to find someone who fits my needs and fits my standards, never again will I settle for anything but the best, cause we all deserve someone to love and care for us and treat us with respect and dignity.


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    Not Delusional but close to it.

    I remember the secret, & that cold in my chest trying sooooo hard to be good just by the power of my mind. Hahaha! now that I think about it, that's pretty hilarious. All my life it was the secret, & all my life tha...

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  • Why

    I met him in January and it was immediate chemistry...this coming off of a severely broken heart and never thinking I would ever meet anyone....I learned now when I fall someone which is rare ...I fall hard for some...

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  • need opinion

    i had a boyfriend n he was my best friend too. he loved me alot n i love him too. we brokeup last year but whenever we used to meet we used to get back together. so he started avoiding me because he just started h...

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  • What is wrong with me

    I recently found out that I have a Love Obsession. It has been nearly 2 years long of heartache and wondering why it has not let up. I found a really good book that was written by Susan Forward called, "Love Obses...

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  • Starting to see the light....

    I just realized that today makes 1 month since we broke up. Its funny how time flies. I have come to realize that he was never the one for me, we were never meant to be, and he was never the end all be all guy, he w...

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  • The Time is Now

    I recently had a discussion with a friend about everything that has happened and I realized that I am not the sad and crying girl that I was. I was able to analyze my relationship and share experiences from it with ...

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  • Living for ME

    Since finding out my ex was cheating on me and still with that girl, I hve tried my hardest to distract the obsessive thoughts about him and her with filling my life with positive things. I have grown a lot in my re...

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  • Ready to Let Go

    Well 4 days ago came the news I was dreading to hear - he got engaged to someone out of the country and had only known thru phone calls and internet chats. I think after 3 days of crying on and off, I realized what ...

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