Get It Out

Release the Negative

Before you can even begin to bounce back, you need to be positive — this means ridding your life of all negative aspects and influences. Let go of stress tied to over-thinking everything. Clear your head, put thoughts to paper - or better yet, say what you've always wanted to say to your ex by emailing us instead at the MyEx Mailbox (myex@bounceback.com ). Remove the remains of the past relationship. Don't turn to vices, don't rebound, don't have any regrets. Read more about all four phases in our Believe section. Find out more

  • Found out he cheated

    I found out the guy I'd been dating for 3 years cheated with someone he met online. I went out of town for several days. While I was gone he had this woman come visit him and stay with him. His little plan backfired when she decided to go thru his belongings while he was at work. She found all the cards and letters I'd given him over the last 3 years in his bedside table. Luckily for me I dated all the cards so he couldn't lie his way out of it to her. She found by phone number in an old cell phone in the house and called me. She told me they had been seeing each other for a year. When he told me he was going out of town on business he was going to see her. I know she wasn't lying because she was able to tell me things only someone involved in a relationship with him would know. When I confronted him he tried to say she was lying and even called her with me on the phone to tell her he wanted me. He was just trying to protect what he had close to home. Too bad it didn't work, Cheater.

 
 

search for a member's story

Search Stories Now
 
NEXT > showing stories 1-8 of 636
 

phase 1 member stories

  • Confusing

    It was an 18 month relationship. In the beginning he was so devoted and everything a girl could hope for. He treated me so kindly, very different to previous relationships. As time went on there were suttle indicati...

    Report >
  • Brian vs Heart

    Mentally I have prepared myself. Mentally I have let him go. I believe I will get over him, I have things to look forward to, a great support system and my confidence is slowly coming back.

    Social medi...

    Report >
  • image description

    6 months and still obsessing

    I met my exboyfriend Dec 2012 and didnt like him all that much but he kept insisting on coming over and going to gym and doing things together all the time that I eventually fell for him. He was my almost constant ...

    Report >
  • image description

    Still mending & fightin the demons

    This is my story. When you're born into a broken family with baggage and mental disorders, it is reeeeeeeally hard to cope. Some people want to tell me to get over it, o like I haven't already tried? Just imagine yo...

    Report >
  • Can't deal with him anymore

    I dated my boyfriend for about 6 months, then I decided to break it off because I thought (not knowing) that he would be the first one to break up with me. So I was very much scared of rejection because I was from ...

    Report >
  • Break-up

    I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I really loved her and it hurt me in many ways when she broke up with me. I had just recently found out that she is now dating one of my close friends and that they tried to k...

    Report >
  • image description

    Funsteven

    I was seeing a man for 3 months, I know it's not a long time, but he was the man I had been with in 12 years. we are both in our 50's. He turned out to be just a player and I am having trouble wrapping my brain arou...

    Report >
  • I broke up with him.

    I feel as if the guilt isn't even here yet. He was a great guy , and in all honesty I did have strong feelings for him at one point. But then he began to get kind of clingy being that we were off from school. We beg...

    Report >