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- 19 Jan 2010
- Posted by austingirl
Once I started being happy again, I started making a plan of what I want from my life. The difference between this plan and the plan I had at 21 was that I didn't put deadlines to things (like being married by 24). Instead I made a plan for what would just make me happy. I focused on things like eating healthy and working out at least 3 days a week or getting a massage at least once every 3 months. I also made a list of qualities I would like in a guy and not the superficial things like how tall he is or what color hair, but what really matters. The fact that he needs to be trustworthy, a good communicator and someone who respects me. I taped my plan to my refrigerator (of course if I have a guy coming over I hide it) to remind me every day of the things I need to focus on to keep me smiling.