Assess Yourself

Focus on You

Make the effort now to get yourself to a place of health and happiness — emotionally and physically. Negative spaces have been filled with positive influences, and everyone is behind you. Focus inward - get in shape, try new things, eat right, travel, read, spend time alone, meditate — show that you are ready to put your happiness first. Read more about all four phases in our Believe section. Find out more

  • renovations underway and thensome

    today is or was the first day where i felt that all things could be reborn and renewed in a likeness more comforting and more true to my own sense of self. ive let them contorl me and my being for too long a time now and i got lost in the sause. i have shields of peple around me to help guide and protect my steps because, however infantile thismay seem, i cant do it onmy own. every one needs a big brother or a big sister to tell them no, dont and stop, and for the first time inthis life, ive finally gotten one. its great to have ur brr living right next door instead of miles away.
    i used to check her page day and day out and now i go days with out a glance...well maybe i give the page a glance or two but just a glance. i know or at least think i know what the knew/old one looks like and can kindly say, she can have her. theres too much going on up here for me to whallow amongst the common lesser folk and though i simpathize with their please for greatness, it cannot come from me. they must make their own in their own likeness and let god judge. i am happy today, with me and now fully understand that those things that i may be seeking may not be simultaneously seeking me....


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    The little devil wants to come out

    Like I said, being the "good" little girl growing up I started to crush a little part of me that wanted to have fun, make fun of people, & play some tricks, why not? After break up after break up I was o no he's a g...

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  • any suggestions would be helpful

    my husband says he doesn't feel comfortable sleeping with me because my friend that he has meet won't call the house, we haven't had sex in 4 months, is he really cheating and placing blame on me?

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  • Embrace Your Adversity

    All things happen for a reason. During and after the breakup this may seem like the farthest thing from the truth. Examine how and why but embrace the opportunity to reinvent yourself and become the person you were ...

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  • who? me? haha yep!

    • 16 May 2011
    • Posted by agram

    i realized im only hurtin myself worring about him.. its meeeeeee time, time to make meeee happy... even if it takes climbing a mountain to get there..

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  • im tryin

    was with this guy for a yr it was great actually it was more den great i eas in heaven..we wer truely in i thought. at the bigging of the relationship i was scared so i had my guard up he took it as i didnt...

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  • Gotta do this for meee!

    I thought I was taking every approach possible to getting my life back on track after the breakup. One last connection remained: we were facebook friends.

    He always reiterated how we were friends and h...

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  • Focusing on me

    Ive spent the past few months really focusing on myself....and it has worked wonders for my soul!!! I finally feel like i am back on my feet and looking forward to my future!

    I started a new exercise r...

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  • To wait or not to wait

    Nine months ago, I moved to NY with my boyfriend. We had been dating for around a year and a half and had been friends before that for 5 years. We lived with his friend and sister, which I believe took a toll on our...

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